The One Thing That Never Fades: Regret

 

"THE WEIGHT OF REGRET: THE ONE THING THAT NEVER FADES"

It is said that:

Life moves forward. Everything passes—Joy fades, Pain heals (which is totally wrong), moments of triumph become memories, and sighs of despair turn into lessons. Even the moments that once felt like they’d last forever eventually slip away. They say nothing lasts forever. But here, my friend, you are wrong.

Because there’s one thing that never leaves. One thing that lingers, silent yet heavy. One thing that will haunt you lifetime. One thing that follows you like a shadow—Regret.

The shadow may leave you in the dark, but regret? 
Regret never leaves you.

Regret is ruthless. It doesn't scream; it whispers.
It doesn't wound; it lingers.

It sits in the quiet moments, reminding you of the words you never said, the love you let slip away, the chances you had but you were too afraid to take. You let your fear win.

 Unlike happiness or heartbreak, regret doesn't fade with time. It stays buried deep in your heart, whispering what ifs and if onlys when you least expect them. It reminds you of the moments you let pass, the doors you never opened, the paths you never dared to talk.

You can outrun pain; you can rebuild after failure; But—

The worst part? You can’t change the past. You can’t go back and fix what’s broken.
 All you can do is live with it, hoping that one day, it stops haunting you.

You know what as of my experiences:

Your inner voice will ask you questions that have no real answers no matter how many excuses or reasons u say but the truth is that you won't have the perfect answers. It will replay moments you can never change. It will turn what if into a longtime echo.

So if you still have time, don't let regret be the thing that stays forever.
 Say what you feel, Chase what you love—who you love. Take the risks.

Because in the end, wounds heal.
But regret?
Regret is forever.

Actions Speak Louder, But Fear Cuts Deeper—The Battle We Never See

People Say Actions Speak Louder Than Words—
Ever Heard Fear Cuts Deeper Than Swords?

People always say, “Actions speak louder than words.” And maybe they’re right. Maybe what we do carries more weight than what we say. But what about fear? What about the things we don’t do because we’re too afraid?  

Let's first talk about fear :

Fear is one of the most powerful emotions. And let me tell you why—because it both protects us and holds us back. You can probably relate. It’s a double-edged sword. It keeps us safe from danger, but at the same time, it stops us from truly living.

But the worst part about fear isn't  the feeling itself- it's what it takes away from us. It keeps us from speaking our hearts, chasing our dreams, and taking risks that could change our lives. Sometimes it turns love into regret, ambition into hesitation and hope into full of doubts.

But here's the truth: Fear isn't real in the way we think it is. It's just a mental wall we build to protect ourselves from pain; But trust me sometimes, the only way to break free is to do exactly what scares us the most. Because in the end, the things we fear the most are often the things worth fighting for.

Now, back to where we started:

I just said that fear is one of the most powerful emotions; but it's not just and emotions it's a weapon sharper than anything- words, knives, etc.., deadlier than any action. And sometimes, it cuts deeper than a sword.

I’ve seen it happen. The way fear stops people from saying what they truly feel. The way it keeps them from chasing what they really want. The way it silences confessions, buries dreams, and destroys love before it even begins. Fear doesn’t need to strike like a sword—it seeps in, slowly, making you doubt, making you hesitate, making you lose what you never even got the chance to fight for. 

 Fear doesn’t just whisper doubts in your mind—it carves them deep into your soul. It makes you hesitate when you should move forward. It keeps you silent when you should speak. It stops you from reaching out, from chasing what you truly want, from fighting for the person you love.

And the worst part? Fear doesn’t leave scars that others can see. It leaves regrets. It leaves what ifs. It leaves a hollow space where something beautiful could have been—but never was. 

And that’s why fear cuts deeper than swords. A sword can wound your body, but fear? Fear wounds your heart, your mind, your future. It leaves scars in the form of what ifs and if onlys. It turns love into longing, dreams into regrets, and possibilities into missed chances.

So yes, actions might speak louder than words. But fear? Fear can make sure those actions never even happen. And that’s how it wins. 

So maybe actions do speak louder than words—but fear? Fear makes sure those actions never even happen. And in the end, the deepest pain isn’t from what we did—it’s from what we were too afraid to do.

In the end what hurts the most? Words left unspoken? Actions never taken? Or the fear that stopped them both?

Waiting for Someone Who Might Never Come Back – But I Still Can't Let Go

 

# How Can You Wait for Someone Who Might Never Come Back?

I ask myself this question every single day. I know the answer should be simple—I should move on, let go, stop waiting. But if it were that easy, I wouldn’t be here, writing this.  

Waiting isn’t something I chose. It’s something my heart decided on its own. No matter how much I try to reason with myself, no matter how many times I tell myself, *She’s not coming back. She’s already gone,* my heart refuses to listen. It still hopes. It still holds on.  

And that’s the hardest part. Knowing that I might be waiting for nothing. That she might never return. That she might have already moved on while I’m still stuck in the past, replaying old conversations, rereading messages, wondering where things went wrong.  

People say, *Why wait for someone who doesn’t even care?* But they don’t get it. It’s not about logic. It’s about the moments we shared, the way she made me feel, the way I *still* feel even after she’s drifted away. It’s about the fact that, deep down, I can’t bring myself to accept that this is how it ends.  

Maybe I’m being foolish. Maybe I’m just making it harder for myself. But how do you stop waiting when you never wanted to let go in the first place? How do you force your heart to unlove someone who still means the world to you?  

I don’t know how long I’ll wait. I don’t know if she’ll ever come back. But until the day my heart gives up on its own, I’ll still be here. Hoping. Waiting. Even if it means waiting for someone who might never return.  

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I Thought I Was Your Home, But I Was Just a Shelter – And Yet, I’m Still Waiting

 

# **I Thought I Was Your Home, But I Was Just a Shelter – And Yet, I’m Still Waiting**  

I don’t know why I ever thought I was different. That maybe, just maybe, I could be the one someone stayed with. That you would stay. But now, I see it for what it is. I was never a home. I was just a shelter.  

People come when they’re lost. When they need comfort. When the world is too cruel to face alone. And I—I give them warmth, I listen, I stay up all night making sure they’re okay. And once they’ve healed? Once they’ve found their way again?  

They start slipping away. Slowly. Silently. Until one day, I wake up and realize… they were never mine to begin with.  

And now, here we are. You’re still here, technically. But not really. It’s been 20 days since we actually *talked*—not just me trying, not just me waiting for a reply that never comes, not just you giving half-hearted responses. You’re avoiding me. Hiding something. And I don’t know why.  

Or maybe… I do.  

The day you confessed, something changed. Not just for us, but in me. I don’t know why, but after that, I started acting like I had some right over you. *Ye mat karo, wo mat karo. Yahan mat jao, wahan mat jao.* Do this, don’t do that. I don’t know when caring turned into controlling, when love turned into rules.  

And maybe that’s why we’re here today. Maybe I made you feel trapped instead of safe. Maybe, without realizing it, I pushed you away.  

I don’t know. I just… felt it. And if that’s true, if I ruined this with my own foolishness, then I don’t know how to fix it.  

I just know I’ll still be waiting.  

For the day you stop running. For the day you let me in again. For the day you realize my feelings weren’t a lie.  

I chased you when I had no chance. I kept trying. I never stopped. And now that I have even the smallest chance… I won’t let you go. I won’t let you down.  

Maybe it’s foolish. Maybe I should stop. But I won’t. Because I meant it when I said my search stopped at you. And deep down, I still hope… someday, you’ll come back.  

To anyone reading this—don’t make the same mistakes I did. Love isn’t about control. It’s not about setting rules. If you truly care about someone, give them freedom, not restrictions. Because once distance replaces closeness, once silence replaces conversations… you might realize it too late.

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Thought I Was a Home, But I’m Just a Shelter for Everyone

 

# **Thought I Was a Home, But I’m Just a Shelter for Everyone**  

I don’t know why I even thought I could be something more. I really believed I was a home—yours. That no matter what, you’d stay. But I was wrong. I was never a home. I was just a shelter.  

People come to me when they’re hurt, when they’re lost, when they have nowhere else to go. They find warmth, comfort, and understanding. And then, when they’re okay again, they leave. Every single time. And now, so have you.  

I told myself you were different. That even if the world changed, even if things got hard, you’d still be here. But you’re not. And I don’t even blame you. Maybe I was always meant to be temporary. Maybe I was only ever a place for you to rest until you could move forward without me.  

I hate this feeling—this emptiness you left behind. I keep telling myself to be strong, to accept it, to let go. But how do I let go of something that still lives in me? How do I move on when every part of me is still waiting for you to come back?

I’m Just A Shelter, Not A Home – A Heart-Touching Reflection on Love and Belonging

Introduction:

Have you ever felt like you were just a temporary place for someone—someone who stayed, but never truly belonged? This is the story of countless hearts that have provided shelter but were never embraced as a home.

In life, we often become a refuge for others, offering them warmth, love, and comfort. But sometimes, no matter how much we give, we remain just a shelter—never their final destination, never their true home.

The Pain of Being a Temporary Shelter

When you care deeply for someone, you give them everything: your time, your support, your love. You listen to their pain, wipe their tears, and stand by them through their darkest times. But when they heal, when they find their strength again, they leave—because for them, you were just a place to rest, not the place they wanted to stay forever.

It’s heartbreaking to realize that some people come into our lives only to take what they need and walk away when they no longer do. They don’t mean to hurt us, but the emptiness they leave behind is real.

The Difference Between a Shelter and a Home

A shelter provides comfort, but a home gives belonging.

A shelter is temporary – people come and go.

A home is permanent – people stay, not just physically, but emotionally.

A shelter is where people find relief from the storm – a home is where they choose to build their lives.

When you are just a shelter, you may be loved in moments of pain, but forgotten in moments of joy.

Learning to Let Go:

One of the hardest lessons in life is accepting that some people are not meant to stay. It’s painful, but it’s also a reminder that your love, kindness, and care were never wasted. You were the light in someone’s darkest night, even if they didn’t stay to see the sunrise with you.

Instead of feeling used or abandoned, take pride in being a shelter. You gave them strength when they needed it most. You played a role in their healing, even if they moved on without you.

Finding Your Own Home:

If you’ve been a shelter for too long, it’s time to find your own home. A home isn’t just a person—it’s a feeling of love, security, and belonging. It’s a place where you are valued, not just needed. It’s where you are chosen, not just found.

Surround yourself with people who don’t just seek shelter in your heart but want to build a life with you. Love yourself enough to stop being a temporary stop for others. You deserve a home too.

Conclusion:

“I’m just a shelter, not a home” is a painful realization, but it is also a stepping stone to self-discovery. Sometimes, we have to stop waiting for people to choose us and start choosing ourselves.

If you’ve ever felt like just a shelter, remember—one day, you will find someone who doesn’t just seek shelter in you but calls you home. Until then, be your own home, and never settle for less than you deserve. 

 

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How to Love a Man: The Kind of Love He Truly Needs

Loving a man isn’t about changing him or expecting perfection. It’s about understanding, patience, and the kind of love that makes him feel safe to be himself. Men may not always express their emotions openly, but that doesn’t mean they don’t crave love, support, and reassurance. If you truly want to love a man the right way, here’s what you need to know:

1. Understand Him—He’s Human Too

He will make mistakes. He won’t always say the right things. There will be moments when he is inconsistent, impatient, or struggles to handle your emotions. Just like you, he has bad days. He gets tired, frustrated, and overwhelmed too. Love him even when he’s not at his best. Be his safe space, not his battlefield.

2. Give Him Freedom—Don’t Cage Him

A man in love doesn’t need to be controlled—he needs to be trusted. Let him have his passions, his hobbies, and his time. Don’t demand his every moment; let him breathe. If he truly loves you, he won’t do anything to hurt you. You are not his entire world—you are an important part of it. The best relationships are those where both partners have the freedom to grow individually while still choosing each other every day.

3. Reciprocate—Love Isn’t One-Sided

Effort should come from both sides. Ask him about his day. Listen when he shares his struggles. Support him when he feels lost. Love him with the same intensity you wish to receive. Be patient with him, just as you want him to be patient with you. A relationship flourishes when both partners give, not just take.

4. Respect Him—His Choices, His Dreams, His Voice

Love cannot exist without respect. Honor his opinions, even when they differ from yours. Let him make decisions for himself without feeling judged. A man who feels respected will give his love freely. A man who feels belittled will slowly withdraw. Love him in a way that makes him feel valued, not controlled.

5. Show Him Affection—He Needs It More Than He Says

Men may not always ask for love, but they need it just as much. Wrap your arms around him after a long day. Hold his hand. Kiss his forehead. Make him feel that no matter what happens, he has someone who will always be there. Love is not just spoken—it’s felt.

6. Give Him Your Attention—He Needs Reassurance Too

Men may act strong, but deep down, they need to feel secure in love. Reassure him that he is the only one for you. Don’t make him question his place in your life. When he feels unappreciated, he will start to pull away. Make him feel seen, valued, and irreplaceable.

Love Him Right, and He Will Love You Forever

A man who feels truly loved will give you a love so deep, so loyal, and so unbreakable that you’ll never have to question it. Love him not by trying to change him, but by accepting him, supporting him, and choosing him—every single day.

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Loving a Broken Girl: A Love That Heals the Deepest Wounds!!!

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Loving a Broken Girl: A Love That Heals

Loving a broken girl is not for the faint of heart. It takes patience, unwavering commitment, and a love so strong that it silences her doubts. Anyone can love a woman untouched by pain, but what about the one who carries invisible scars? The one who has loved and lost, who has been let down too many times, who has learned to hide her heart behind walls she built to survive?

You can’t love her halfway. She won’t believe she deserves love, so you must love her in a way that makes her feel safe enough to stay. Be there when she tries to push you away, not because she wants to, but because she’s afraid of being abandoned again. Love her hardest when she feels unlovable. She doesn’t see herself the way you do. She can hear a thousand reassurances and still believe the lies her past has whispered to her for years. So remind her—every day, in the way you touch her, in the way you look at her, in the way you choose her.

She Needs Consistency

Broken girls overthink. They notice everything—the slight changes, the silences, the way people drift away without warning. If you stop doing the little things you once did, she will notice. If your love starts to feel uncertain, she will retreat into herself, convinced that she was right all along—that love always leaves.

She doesn’t need extravagant gestures; she needs reliability. She needs good morning texts that never stop, arms that hold her even on the days when she’s quiet, and a voice that tells her she is enough, especially when she doesn’t believe it herself.

She Craves Love but Fears Asking for It

She wants to be held but won’t always say it. She longs for warmth but has taught herself to live without it. So, hold her close without her needing to ask. Kiss her forehead, intertwine your fingers with hers, remind her she is wanted—not just when she is radiant and joyful, but even on the days when she is silent, distant, and lost in thoughts she can’t explain.

She has spent too much time wondering if she is too much or not enough. Show her, with every action, that she is exactly right.

Honesty Is Everything

She has been promised forever before, only to watch it shatter like glass. She has believed in words that turned out to be empty. If you say something, mean it. If you make a promise, keep it. She would rather hear a painful truth than a beautiful lie. Broken girls do not fear heartbreak—they have survived it before. What they fear is believing in something that isn’t real.

Loving Her Is Not Easy, But It’s Worth It

If she lets you in, she will love you with a loyalty so fierce it will take your breath away. She doesn’t love in halves. She loves with everything she has, even if love has wounded her before. She will fight for you, stand beside you, and choose you—every single day.

And if you stay—truly stay—you will witness something rare and beautiful: a love that is unbreakable, because it was built from the pieces of a heart that once thought it would never be whole again.

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Love Means Effort!

 Love isn’t just a word—it’s an action. It’s about showing up, being present, and proving through your actions that someone truly matters to you.

Love means effort.

• It means making time for someone, not just saying you will.
• It means standing by them during the hardest times, not just when it’s convenient.
• It means listening—not just hearing—but truly understanding how they feel.
• It means showing them they are a priority, not an afterthought.

Love isn't a series of empty words, broken promises, or dismissing someone’s feelings.

If you want a relationship to work, you have to put in the effort. A relationship built on neglect, half-hearted gestures, or excuses will never last.

Being committed to someone means making a conscious effort for them. If you can’t do that, then let them go—because someone else will gladly give them the love and effort they deserve.

What Does Love Mean to You?

Drop your thoughts in the comments below! And if this resonates with you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. 

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Quantum physics just got even weirder

 

Scientists have uncovered a "demonic engine" that challenges our understanding of thermodynamics. This system, inspired by the famous Maxwell’s Demon paradox, appears to extract more energy than it expends—something that should be impossible under the second law of thermodynamics.

But here’s the twist: quantum mechanics doesn’t actually have to break the second law. Researchers found that while some quantum processes can defy thermodynamic rules, they can also be designed to follow them. This delicate balance suggests that quantum mechanics and thermodynamics are independent yet intertwined, shaping the very foundation of physics. 

The implications are staggering. This research could influence quantum computing, nanoscale energy systems, and even our understanding of time itself. If scientists can harness these principles, they might unlock new breakthroughs in energy efficiency and computing power beyond what we thought possible.

The Other Universe Where Nothing Bad Happened – A Reflection on Lost Innocence

Explore a heartfelt reflection on childhood innocence and the untouched world of a 12-year-old, where endless possibilities abound

In another universe, my window is open. The curtains sway gently with the evening breeze, and the golden light of the setting sun spills into my bedroom, painting soft patterns on the walls. I am lying on the floor, arms stretched out, staring at the ceiling as if it holds the answers to all the questions I haven't yet learned to ask.  

I am 12 years old. My heart is light, untouched by sorrow. My world is still a place of wonder, where the biggest worries are unfinished homework and the occasional scraped knee. The air smells like freshly cut grass and the promise of summer, and everything feels infinite—like I have all the time in the world to figure things out.  

Nothing bad has happened to me yet.  

I don't know the weight of heartbreak, the sting of betrayal, or the slow ache of growing apart from people I once thought I’d know forever. I haven’t yet learned that sometimes, no matter how much love you give, people leave. That there are moments in life when the world stops making sense, and no amount of wishing can take you back to the time before.  

In this other universe, I don’t know what it’s like to stay up at night, staring at my phone, re-reading old conversations with people who have become strangers. I haven’t yet had to fake a smile when someone asks, “Are you okay?” I haven't yet understood that the world can be sharp, unforgiving, and sometimes cruel.  

In this universe—the one where I am writing this—I know all of these things. I carry the weight of experiences that changed me in ways I never expected. The innocence I once had is now just a memory, a distant dream of a child who didn’t yet understand that some doors, once closed, never reopen.  

And yet, sometimes, I still like to imagine that other universe. The one where my window is open, and I am 12 years old, untouched by sorrow. Where the world is still soft, still kind, still full of endless possibilities.  

I close my eyes, take a deep breath, and for just a moment—I let myself believe I am still there.

Shaukh ki umar mein sabr karna sikh gaya hu

 Shaukh ki umar mein

 Sabr Karna Sikh gya hu

Hasne ki umar mein

Rona sikh gya hu

Chahate to thi bahot

 kuch karne ki meri

Ab use dheere dheere 

Bhulna Sikh gya hu

Shaukh ki umar mein 

Sabr karna sikh gya hu

 

 

सब कुछ अधुरा

 समय के भवर में फस के रह गया हूँ ; खुद की तलाश में खुद  से बिछर गया हूँ , 

मंज़िल की तलाश में मैंने कई ख्वाहिशों  को  दफनाया है , जिससे नफरत थी उसे गले लगाया है 

हरे कृष्णा।।

भविष्य के गर्व में क्या रखा ये तो स्वयं नारायण को नहीं पता था ; हम तो फिर भी मनुष्य है ।।

इसलिए भविष्य की चिन्ता न कर हमे वर्तमान पर ध्यान देना चाहिए;

वर्तमान में कर्मों का निर्वहन करें ।।

 बिरादरी में बियाहने के चक्कर मे,

सब कुछ गरक कर देते हैं???

एक हस्ते खेलते जीवन को...

घरवाले नरक कर देते हैं..!!

द्रौपदी ।

द्रौपदी की वस्त्रहरण, एक कथा अद्वितीय,

महाभारत के युद्ध में, बदली जीवन की दीवार।

शकुनि की कपट योजना, कौरवों का क्रूर प्रयास,

द्रौपदी को अपमानित करने की उनकी आस।

यदि वस्त्र नहीं, तो क्या था विशेष उपहार,

द्रौपदी के स्वयंवर में, जिसने बदला इतिहास।

पांच पांडवों की पत्नी, शक्ति का प्रतीक थी वह,

वस्त्र के पीछे छिपे, असीम शक्तियों का रहस्य था जो खुला।

कौरवों की हानि, उनकी हार की नींद में,

द्रौपदी के अपमान का, राग भरा स्थान।

कृष्णा की मदद से, वस्त्रों का अद्वितीय जादू,

द्रौपदी की अपमान को, किया अपनी शक्ति का परित्याग।

वस्त्रहरण की कथा, सिखाती है हमें शिक्षा,

स्त्री की महत्वपूर्णता, और उसकी शक्ति की मान्यता।

द्रौपदी की अद्भुत कहानी, हमें दिखाती है राह,

सहसा न झुकने वाली, शक्ति, विजय और सफलता की आशा।

 

प्रेम और ज्ञान के साथ इस युग में हम सब एक दूसरे का साथ देंगे और परिवर्तन लाएंगे ।।

 कलियुग की छाया में, एक नई कहानी,

परिवर्तनों की दुनिया, अव्यवस्था की जवानी।

धर्म की कमी, दुष्कर्मों की बरसात,

पर आशा की किरन, जलती रहे सदा।

तकनीकी उन्नति, एक दोहरी धार,

मनोबल्लिनि करे, हृदयों की पार।

भौतिक लालसाएँ, अधिक प्राथमिकता,

आध्यात्मिक अर्थ को, करे अशक्त करता।

फिर भी इस परीक्षण भरे युग में,

हम सब सही मार्ग पर चलेंगे।

दया की किरनें हमें प्रेरित करेंगी,

अंधकार को दूर भगाएंगी, रोशनी लाएंगी आवेशनी।

कलियुग के चुनौतियों को, हम पार करेंगे,

एकता की तलाश में, समय को सुधारेंगे।

प्रेम और ज्ञान के माध्यम से, हम आगे बढ़ेंगे,

सत्य के मार्ग में, इस युग में हम राह दिखाएंगे।

ईश्वर ने दुष्ट,बेईमान,लालची,स्वार्थी और दोगले लोगों को क्यों बनाया?

 ईश्वर ने दुष्ट,बेईमान,लालची,स्वार्थी और दोगले लोगों को क्यों बनाया?बनाने का क्या कारण है? आइए जानते हैं सच👉

उनकी इच्छा,उनकी लीला,उनकी माया।उनकी दुनिया में विद्या भी है और अविद्या भी।जीवन में अंधकार की भी बहुत आवश्यकता है,अंधकार रहने पर प्रकाश की महिमा और भी ज्यादा प्रकट होती है।काम, क्रोध,लालच,स्वार्थ यह सब खराब तो है ही पर यह सब ईश्वर ने दिया ही क्यों?दिया महान व्यक्तियों को तैयार करने के लिए,मनुष्य इंद्रियों पर विजय प्राप्त करने से ही महान होता है,जितेंद्रिय क्या नहीं कर सकता?उनकी कृपा से उसे ईश्वर प्राप्ति तक हो सकती है,यह सब बनाने के पीछे यही कारण है ताकि लोग सही तक पहुंचे एवं ईश्वर तथा धर्म को जाने👉

समाज में दुष्ट लोगों की भी आवश्यकता है,एक गांव के लोग बहुत उदंड हो गए थे,उस समय वहां एक गोलोक चौधरी को भेज दिया गया,उसके नाम से लोग कांपने लगे,इतना कठोर शासन था उसका क्योंकि वह चौधरी दुष्ट था और लोहे को लोहा ही काटता है।अतः समाज में दुष्ट और अच्छे दोनों की आवश्यकता है।जिस गांव के उदंड लोगों को अच्छे लोग नहीं सुधार पाए,वह एक दुष्ट चौधरी ने कर दिया।सीताजी बोली राम अयोध्या में यदि सब के पास सुंदर महल होते तो कैसा अच्छा होता?मैं देख पा रही हूं कि अनेक मकान टूट गए हैं,जर्जर है,श्रीराम बोले,यदि सभी मकान सुंदर हो तो मिस्त्री लोग क्या करेंगे?👉

ईश्वर ने सब प्रकार के पदार्थ बनाए है और सबका अपना-अपना महत्व एवं कार्य है।दुष्ट लोग के कारण ही तो महान लोग पैदा होते हैं और समाज तथा दुष्टों को सही रास्ता दिखाते हैं तलवार से या कलम से।समाज में बुरा,खराब,ज्ञान,सच,स्वार्थ, क्रोध सब की जरूरत है,तभी तो इनकी सच्चाई जानकर लोग इससे ऊपर उठ सकेंगे एवं आने वाली समस्याओं का खुलकर बिना किसी समस्या के सामना कर सकेंगे।श्रीहनुमान जी ने क्रोध में लंका जला दी थी फिर उन्हें मालूम हुआ कि लंका के उस वन में माता सीता भी हैं,कहीं उन्हें नुकसान ना हो जाए,तब उन्हें अपनी गलती का एहसास हुआ,फिर आग लगाना बंद कर दिए,अब उन्हें पता चल गया कि क्रोध बहुत खराब चीज है इसीलिए वे क्रोध से ऊपर उठ गए और महान हो गए।ईश्वर की लीला को पहचानना अत्यंत मुश्किल है भक्ति,ज्ञान,निष्काम कर्म से ही उनकी लीलाओं को जाना जा सकता है।जय श्रीराम।

अपने आत्म सम्मान को इतना मत गिराओ किसी अनजान स्त्री के लिए।

 

मत दो प्रपोजल किसी लड़की को प्यार का,यहां कोई किसी से प्यार नहीं करता!सबके स्वार्थ हैं! सबको कुछ न कुछ चाहिए होता है!👉

मत करो प्रपोज और कितना तुम उनके सामने गिरोगे?इतना जान लो कि दुनिया में लोग प्यार भी मतलब से करते हैं,सबके कुछ स्वार्थ होते हैं।तुम जैसे हो,वैसे वह भी है लेकिन यदि तुम उसे प्रपोज कर दोगे तो वह स्वीकार नहीं करेगी क्योंकि सबके बहाने हैं मेरे भाई।लोग सच्चे लड़कों से बचने के लिए घटिया से भी घटिया तर्क देते हैं कि हम प्यार नहीं कर सकते लेकिन बाद में पता चलता है कि वह लड़की किसी धन संपन्न लड़के से प्यार करते पकड़ी जाती हैं जैसे पैसे वाला,गाड़ी वाला, स्टाइलिश,भौतिक संपदा से युक्त,अच्छे कपड़े इत्यादि।लड़की को यह भी पता है कि वह सच्चा लड़का सही है लेकिन अपने स्वार्थ,इच्छा एवं भोग के कारण किसी झूठे को चाहे लेती है,वे इच्छाओं कि दुनिया में बिक चुके है मुर्शद👉

सबके बहाने हैं,तुमसे प्यार ना करने का क्योंकि उसे कोई और चाहिए होता है।यदि तुम उसे यह भी कहोगे कि मुझे तुम्हारे शरीर से प्यार नहीं है!मरते दम तक touch नहीं करूंगा!मजाल है कि वह मान जाए,वह नहीं मानेगी फिर भी।हां उन लोग प्यार के डायलॉग तथा तर्क तो अच्छा देती है लेकिन यह सब बातें जानने और अपनाने की औकात नहीं उनकी।तुम उसे बोल भी दोगे कि मैं तुम्हें ऐसे रखूंगा और वह तुमसे यह भी कहेगी कि तुम तो अच्छे हो,कर दो प्रपोज उसे फिर,मजाल है कि वह मान जाए,नहीं मानेगी सबका अपना स्वार्थ,एवं बहाना है दरअसल उन्हें कोई और चाहिए होता है।मत ढूंढो प्रेम,खुद से कर लो।अरे जालिम यहां पैसे,स्टाइलिश,अच्छी शक्ल,सेटलमेंट,अच्छे बाल,अच्छे घर,अच्छे बदन के आधार पर बोलियां एवं प्रेम लगता है।तुम यहां मत भटको,नहीं तो मारे जाओगे👉

मैं जानता हूं कि तुम शक्ल,बाल,ज्ञान,विचार,गुण एवं व्यवहार से अच्छे हो,शरीर से प्यार नहीं करते लेकिन ये लोग नहीं मानते।इन लड़कियों का ईमान बिक चुका है,ये होते कुछ और तथा दिखाते कुछ और हैं।यह प्यार वाली शायरियां,किताबें,हृदय वाली यह सब रट्टू बाजी बातें केवल वही तक अच्छी लगती है,उसे वही रहने दो,वह कल्पना में ही ठीक लगती है।कल्पना वाली सच्ची बातों को अपनाने की औकात नहीं किसी की।यह बातें सभी लड़कियों के लिए नहीं है।मैं मानता हूं तुम उसे अच्छा खिला,पिला सकते हो,अच्छे कपड़े,मान सम्मान,खुशी,केयर दे सकते हो लेकीन वो नही मानेगी मुर्शद।यह बात लड़कों पर भी लागू होती है।

तुम सबक दे गयी सबको ।

 किसने डा़ली थी तुममें,

मार खाने की आदत,

जो तुम उससे मार खाती गयी,

उसके हौसले बढ़ाती गयी।

समझ में नहीं आता ,

दकियानुसी बातों से तुम ऊपर थी,

प्रगतिशील थे तुम्हारे विचार,

फिर क्यों तुम उसके साथ निभाती गयी,

उसके हौसले बढ़ाती गयी।

पढ़ाई तुम्हारी पूरी थी,

कमाना भी जानती थी,

अपने पैरों पर खड़ी थी तुम,

फिर नशेड़ी का नशा क्यों,

अपने उपर चढ़ाती गयी,

उसके हौसले बढ़ाती गयी।

अच्छे दोस्त थे तुम्हारे,

थे मुसीबतों के सहारे,

माना पिता को 

गलत हुआ निर्णय,

यह बताने में झिझकी तुम,

पर दोस्तों से भी तो छुपाती गयी,

उसके हौसले बढ़ाती गयी।

तुम गलत नहीं थी,

ऊपर वाला करेगा इंसाफ ,

पर तुम सबक दे गयी सबको,

माता पिता से गलत होती है गुस्ताखी,

उनके लिए रखना मन साफ,

तुम उनसे दूरियां बनाती गयी,

दरिंदे का हौसला बढ़ाती गयी।

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